I tell you the truth, wherever this gospel is preached
throughout the world, what she has done will also be told, in memory of her.
My guess
is, if I were to ask you who Jesus is referring to and what she did, you would
have to scramble into the deep recesses of your Bible memory to come up with
the story. Or most likely, the connection between his statement and her story
has never stuck though you may know the story well. It is recorded in Matthew
26:6-13, Mark 14:3-9 and John 12:1-8. (Luke 7:36-50 is a story of a different
woman.)
While Jesus was in Bethany in the home of Simon the Leper,
a woman came to him with an alabaster jar of very expensive perfume, which she
poured on his head as he was reclining at the table.
With that
one act, a firestorm of angry words were loosed as the disciples argued the
value of the perfume and where it should have gone. But Jesus defended her. He
validated her expression of devotion and reframed it as part of his journey
toward the cross.
Wherever
this gospel is preached,
her story is to be told. How many times have preachers been obedient to these
words of Jesus? How could such an amazing tribute be so forgotten?
Ever
since my Greek class in seminary where I wrote a 20 page paper dissecting this
story, I have been on a mission to wipe away the centuries of dirt and dust on
her epitaph. What she did should inspire and encourage every woman who knows
the transforming power of the gospel.
Usually
the gospel is associated with the twelve male disciples who walked with Jesus,
heard his teaching, witnessed numerous miracles, gathered to eat the last
supper with him, and then changed the world after the resurrection.
But you
also have to embrace twelve disciples who lacked faith in the threatening wind
and waves (Matt. 8:26, 14:31), who had no compassion on the hungry multitudes
(Matt. 14:15), who were dull when it came to parables (Matt. 15:16), who were
stumbling blocks to Jesus' path to the cross (Matt. 16:23), who divided over
greatest among them (Matt. 20:24), who betrayed Jesus for thirty pieces of
silver (Matt: 26:14, 27:3), who fell asleep when Jesus needed them most to pray
(Matt:26:40), who chose violence instead of trust when challenged by a soldier
(Matt. 26:52), who chose denial rather than loyalty when challenged by a
servant girl (Matt. 26:70), and finally, who were absent when Jesus was laid in
the tomb and were absent when he was resurrected (Matt. 27:60, 28:10).
In his
gospel account Matthew often is less than favorable in the depictions of his
fellow disciples. But when it comes to the story in chapter 26, he shines a
brilliant spotlight on a woman who, sandwiched between stories of betrayal,
represents the ideal disciple.
Though
John identifies her as Mary, the sister of Martha and Lazarus, Matthew keeps
her unnamed for the purpose of setting her as the example of discipleship for
everyone, both male and female. Interestingly, Matthew never refers to any
other of the stories of this significant family trio nor names them.
Yet we
know Mary well from the other gospels as the woman who has already broken a
serious cultural glass ceiling by sitting at the feet of the Rabbi Jesus. The
male voices of complaint are strangely silent. The voice you hear is Martha's
and her complaint leads to a gentle rebuke from Jesus concerning priorities.
This story is often used to encourage women who identify with her to be more
like Mary, to take the time to stop and sit at the feet of Jesus in private
devotion.
But we
could take this story further and encourage women to sit at the feet of Jesus with the men. Or encourage women
to not criticize women who are called to be in the room with the men rather
than in the kitchen.
So many
layers of meaning...but back to Mary and her alabaster jar.
In
Matthew's one snapshot of her, Mary does not disappoint us in showing us again she moves
outside men's boundaries and lives in the freedom of Christ.
For
Matthew, she is the personification of devotion, loyalty and extravagant love.
Her simple act is transformed into a sacred act by Jesus. What the disciples
misunderstand and judge is received by Jesus and elevated alongside the gospel. When they think they have a handle on Jesus' teaching especially
concerning the poor (they had just heard the parable of the sheep and goats -
Matt. 25), a woman steps into their man
cave and with one act, upsets their rules and rearranges their priorities. She
does not utter a single word, yet she teaches the men. She seeks no glory, yet
now her story is to be remembered by preachers until the end of time.
Among the
stories of these disciples, her story must not be lost or forgotten lest we
disobey Jesus. Among the stories of leaders and disciples today, our stories as
women must not be lost or forgotten lest we disregard what Jesus set out to do.
The Spirit of the Sovereign Lord is on me, because the Lord
has anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to bind up
the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom for the captives and release from
darkness for the prisoners, to proclaim the year of the Lord’s
favor and the day of vengeance of our God, to comfort all who mourn, and
provide for those who grieve in Zion— to bestow on
them a crown of beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning,
and a garment of praise instead of a spirit of despair. They will be called
oaks of righteousness, a planting of the Lord for the display of his splendor.
Isaiah 61:1-3
Women are
also oaks in the forest in a mutual display of his splendor.
Long
defined by the curse and confined by earthly traditions, our stories have been
redeemed by Jesus and elevated alongside the stories of men.
Often
misunderstood and judged, our acts of discipleship and gifts of service are
sacred, being ordained by our one, true Master.
Between
the stories of failure or betrayal or abuse by men are women who quietly enter
the room with courage, head straight to the feet of Jesus and declare without
words their place as an equal disciple.
Matthew,
Mark and John were three men who obeyed Jesus by including Mary's story in the
gospel accounts. But his command went beyond the historical borders of the
written word to the wherever preaching of the spoken word. With his statement,
the picture of a most favored and faithful disciple took feminine form.
Any church
who takes seriously the words of Jesus should tell Mary's story each time the
gospel is preached. Even more, in considering the broader implications of his
tribute, every church should validate the presence and stories of women in
their midst.
Otherwise
the image of a Christ is incomplete and unbalanced just as the image of God
would be incomplete without the Genesis creation of male AND female.
As for me, I will never forget Mary's story. I will keep walking into the room with my "alabaster jar" in obedience and devotion to my Jesus.
